Men’s Guide to Choosing the Best Gift this Valentines Day

With February fast approaching, there’s one thing on every guy’s mind: “Oh my God, what do I get my girlfriend/wife/date?” There’s going to be a pretty mad rush to the shops to get a nice present for the day. It’s a day when every guy will tiptoe on eggshells just to find the perfect gift to show their affection and make that special lady feel special.

Relax! It’s a good thing that the best Valentine’s gifts are usually the staples, and are also the ones that you can find anywhere. These are chocolates, jewelry, and flowers.

Flowers, of course, refer to the good, old bouquet of roses – in red, of course. They can either show a very deep and intimate connection, or that initial allure between two people. Be careful though, as even the mere number of roses you give has a meaning. While three roses mean “I love you”, a single rose or a bouquet have a safer, more general meaning.

All women love chocolates. But though chocolates are one thing that most women cannot resist, make sure your girl is not in a no-chocolate diet because she won’t be able to appreciate your present. Chocolates are also budget-friendly. If money is tight, you won’t go wrong with commercial chocolate bars, but if you’re feeling generous, you can always splurge on more mouth-watering confections (read: Belgian).

Jewelry is a bit trickier; it needs appreciation of your level of commitment and your girl’s taste. If the two of you are already serious and steady, a ring may be appropriate and can be an affirmation of your bond. Otherwise, bracelets, earrings and necklaces should do the trick. The heart style is in fashion and many variations of this motif are just intricate. Note though that the gifting of really expensive jewelry can have negative connotations and it’s best to appraise the context of your relationship before you make any extravagant purchases.

Apart from the obvious and more traditional gifts, there are more options you could choose from. If she collects a certain item, add something to her collection. If she loves books, get something that she might want to read. You can also get her CDs, DVDs, perfume, or even pajamas. It’s just a matter of knowing what fits her personality best.

If you’re feeling your muse stirring inside you, you can always hunker down and create something special for your girl. You can put to talents to good use. Write a poem, or a song. Make a montage, if you’re good at making videos, or cook a gourmet dinner, if you’re a whiz in the kitchen. The effort won’t go unnoticed.

And remember, Valentine gifts can be experiential too! An excellent gift can be something you would both appreciate; something that brings you closer as a couple. If you’re on a budget, champagne can stimulate that bonding moment. If you can splurge a little, maybe a candlelit dinner in a fancy restaurant or tickets to a concert is the way to go. If you can splurge a lot, how about a getaway to a secluded place?

At the end of the day, as long as something is sincere, thought-out and from the heart, it’ll leave a lasting impression. The spirit of Valentines Day is being with someone you’d like to spend the day with. Keep that in mind and everything else will come easy.

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